THE SIMPLE LIFE

Wow.  What a week; most of it has gone by as a blur it's been exciting and different to say the least!

As my friend Jenny would say: "Stick a fork in me, I'm done" or rather in this case, "well-done" seems more appropriate.
I'm 40 weeks and 2 days at the moment with no sign of it coming to an end any time soon (ie. no contractions, no show, no plug, no pain....nothing).  And trust me, it isn't for lack of trying!  I've searched online and attempted most possibilities.  Although I did stopped short of using castor oil because a whole day of diarrhea just doesn't seem worth it even if I get a baby in the end.

I broke down in tears during lunch cuz I'm getting so irritable, angry and frustrated at everyone around me and I'm no longer feeling myself.  I'm acting ridiculous and don't know how to stop it.  Also cuz I'm starting to get worried - the doctor said that we'll have to consider inducing labour if the baby doesn't come by my next appointment.  I'd really like to avoid that even though Alex tries to reassure me that the intervention is quite normal.  I just want it to be natural...and soon!

On the other hand, I got a fresh dose of reality check when I went into hospital triage today for my non-stress test to make sure the baby's still healthy enough (the baby's still active so no worries).  There was another lady behind one of the curtains going through early labour.  It was actually quite disturbing to hear her moans getting louder and increasing in frequency.  It didn't help when I heard the nurse tell her that they were more like cramps and that the contractions were only starting.  The lady just kept saying "it's so painful", "make it stop" to finally pleading "I don't want anymore".  I'll assume she's referring to the pain since I don't think the baby is anywhere on her mind at the moment.  I'll have to remember to bring my ipod to drown out the sounds when it's my turn to be in labour.  Somehow being surrounding by moaning women doesn't seem conducive a peaceful heart.

Lord God, please forgive me of my recent attitude and quick anger.  You know exactly how I have been feeling lately and yet, it still doesn't excuse any of it.  Please transform me to be more like Your Son Jesus - to be patient and still as I wait for Your timing; knowing that Your plans are best.  Grant me a joyful spirit, one that can give thanks in all circumstances  and stay positive in any situation.


In other news, my Kai Ma is arriving tonight for a 2-day visit.  It was supposed to be a surprise but my mom accidentally let it slip.  Hopefully she'll see more than just a very round belly!  BTW, we started a baby blog - mainly for my parents but also for any of our out-of-town family and friends to stay updated on changes.  You can check it out here.


    

 

Just found out that our friends, Geoff & Karen, who were supposed to be due 10 days after us actually delivered THIS MORNING instead!  Welcome to the world little Hannah Joyce! =)

Makes everything seem so much more real and very soon.  It really is any time now - that's crazy!  I'm feeling anxious, nervous and excited all in one.

My doctor asked me to not go into labour this weekend since he's out of town.  It'll be nuts if I start going into labour while at dinner this Saturday when visiting the gang in Toronto .  There should be enough time to drive back to Waterloo though...apparently delivering a baby naturally for the first time usually takes 12-14 hours.

We'll see...!

Whoo hoo!  We're getting there.  Baby is allowed to come any time now =D

It's been a long time since I last posted but I've got pretty much everything I wanted to do done since my time off from work (see below).  To be honest, I've really enjoyed being pregnant - not just the staying-at-home-and-taking-it-easy part but I've been fortunate enough that there hasn't been crazy complications.  I just get the regular heartburn, leg cramps, frequent bathroom breaks at all hours of the night.  So I've been able to appreciate all the time I get to spend with the baby in my belly.  I LOVE feeling it move!  Not only is it reassuring to know things are okay but it's so much fun to watch as well =)  I was a little sad and disappointed when I first found out I got stretch marks.  I thought I was doing really well all along but then I couldn't see the underside of my belly.  It wasn't until Alex pointed it out to me and I had to hold a mirror underneath to see it.   Oh well, now I'm used to it so they'll be like battle scars that I'll show off to my kids one day - hahaha!  

I've been more emotional the past month and I blame it on the hormones.  I'd cry at the silly things and I have no control over it, even when I know it's completely ridiculous. Case in point: Alex gives me a disapproving look when I say I'm full from eating popcorn; which leads to my wretched sobbing for 15 minutes.  Repeat this cycle with different triggers 3 times in a day.  Poor Alex.
When it first started to happened, I think he was a little concerned and gave me his "concerned doctor spiel" on postpartum depression to make sure I will talk about my feelings.  Now, he just lets me cry and hugs me.  The other day I cried because the baby's going to grow so quickly once it's out and I wanted it to stay inside.  Sounds insane right?    Who the heck cries for the future?

Any way, I've been spending a lot of time getting things ready.  The to-do list is essentially complete (see below for what was accomplished during my time off).  The last 3 remaining items will probably just get added to some future list down the road since none require immediate attention and action.

- create answers for lab manual

When my dad came to Toronto last week for the G20 summit, he brought over a suitcase full of clothes for the baby.  I washed all the hand-me-downs and put them away already but there's still a bunch of new clothes that I probably won't even use in time.  My in-laws did some research last week when diapers were on sale at Shoppers' and we went on Senior's day to load up on not just diapers but wipes and baby toiletries.  It was a pretty sweet deal cuz we got free quarter chicken dinners at Swiss Chalet for every $50 spent.  Plus snacks!  Did you know that retirement homes hand out tarts, cakes and cookies at Shoppers' on Senior's day to get you to visit their place?

Since Alex's first year of residency ends this month, he had a lot of left over vacation and professional leave days that he ended up taking before July 1st.  We got to spend a lot of time together - some of it was accomplishing the cleaning on my to-do list since I can no longer lift heavy boxes.  But a lot of times we just did quality time/date things.  Just last week, we did a spontaneous picnic.  I usually have a blanket in the car for going to the park and we had those Swiss chalet coupons.  It was tons of fun and such a beautiful day.  We also went to explore St. Jacob's village, checking out the little stores on its main street while eating pepperettes.  Some days were just trying new recipes or taking pictures with the new camera.  I think one of the best advice we took to heart was making the most of our time together with just the two of us.  I'm sure life will be very different once the baby comes along.

The marriage series with our house church group just finished and we had a night of sharing by spitting up the husbands from the wives.  It was nice to have everyone share on a deeper level and also encouraging to know that combining the spiritual aspect of a marriage is a continual learning process.  I've been challenged by God and Alex lately to incorporate the Bible more in our marriage so Alex and I are going through 1 Samuel right now.  The hardest part is being diligent and persevering when faced with other distractions.  I've been finding encouragement through reading other womens' blogs; it's been a long time since I've done that and quite refreshing actually.  


Some other news is that my maternal grandmother is on her way to BC as I type this.  She's been having health/Alzheimer issues for several years now and the family decided it was time for her to return to Canada after being in HK since my grandpa passed away in high school.  I think it'll be quite an adjustment for my parents to have her living with them and my mom will probably have to cut her trip short when she visits us in a few weeks.  Originally she was planning to stay over a month and a half to help with the baby.  


I'm kind of excited.  Less than 3 weeks before the baby arrives!  Part of me wants it come out already so I can see it and play with it, but part of wants it to stay inside longer so I can enjoy carrying it around with me.
      

  

It's been almost a month since I last updated - mainly because I've been so productive! I've got quite a number things on my "to do" list crossed off and the tough ones like organizing the different rooms have been started and are still an on-going process.

With the students wrapping up winter term at Waterloo, clinic finished last week so they could study for their exams. The spring term doesn't start until May and it took some time for me to decide but in the end, I've chosen to take it easy for these last 3 months and not work.

I've been bugged about the lack of updates on the blog recently and now that most people know I'm pregnant, I figured it's time to actually share thoughts on it.

1. How far along...?
I never know how to answer this question. Unless the person asking already has kids or happens to be in the medical field, chances are they won't know what an expected length's suppose to be. At least I never did. If someone told me they were 23 weeks (that's where I'm at) I would've asked "how month's is that", thinking a typical pregnancy is 9 months. Apparently it's closer to 10 months because you actually have to go through the entire 9 months. So I guess I'm around 5 1/2 months right now.

2. Size
I've been told that I'm not that big. And I guess I'm not, when I compare myself to a friend who's due 10 days after me. But I FEEL bigger; especially since I'm showing. Let's not even get started on weight gain - I'm already into numbers that I hoped never to see on the scale =P On the plus side, I read somewhere that the increased breast size account for at least a pound of total weight gain - I will definitely miss these puppies after pregnancy *grin*. Seriously though, I can't really complain cuz it means that the baby's healthy and growing; something that I am very thankful for.

3. Husband
I'm so glad Alex is around to keep me in the proper perspective - every time I report to him a higher number on the scale, he just gets really giddy and tells me how happy he is. it's hard to be all self-conscious when someone's seeing weight gain as such a positive thing. He's also been great at reassuring me that I'm still beautiful even with my big belly and tells all our friends that I've got the "pregnancy glow". Guys take notes on how to keep your woman feeling wonderful!

I didn't get a chance to post last week since I usually do it while at work and for some reason, it was crazy - they all showed up. So I actually had to work and teach! =P Any way, today has 3 cancellations so I should have plenty of time to update.

1. O Noir
After hearing everyone talk about it during the ski weekend, Alex surprised me by making reservations and taking me out for a date night. As a side note, I don't think most people realize that majority of "blind" individuals don't actually see pitch black. In fact, it's pretty rare. Usually, it's just decreased vision, and even if there's no light perception, it typically only occurs in one eye. Not saying that they don't need canes and seeing-eye dogs; just that it's not complete darkness. Any way - for those who don't know about this restaurant, you eat in the dark and your servers are blind. It was an interesting experience, quite fun actually but I felt it was too pricey for actual taste. Especially when you're not paying for room decor or the appearance of the food. We had lots of good laughs with Alex cheating the entire meal by eating with his hands. I used my utensils but kept losing the food by the time it got to my mouth. At one point, I was sick of eating meat more than veggies and thinking that I must have finished all the veggies I gave Alex my plate. He found a whole pile of veggies hidden to one side and when he tried to feed it to me, all I got was more meat! I had gone through different courses in my training to help us understand low vision patients, but this was the first time I've ever tried to eat something. Even though it's not entirely realistic, it was a good experience and one that I would recommend to try at least once. I wouldn't go back again unless it was with a group of friends because the food was just okay and not worth the price.

2. Shopping
We spent this past weekend going to at lesst 6 different places looking for more furniture. Alex was going crazy since he hates home decor shopping but he was a good sport and we accomplished a lot. We got a really nice cabinet for our living room so the stereo no longer tips into the cardboard box (which was what it was on before). Originally, we had fallen in love with this gorgeous buffet table with wine rack but even on clearance, it was still 600 bucks! We also got a storage bench for our foyer area. It was on clearance too but much more reasonable. I love clearance shopping - it's just hard to find matching pieces for the bedroom. That's our eventual goal.

3. New electronic toys
My old laptop is 6.5 years old and although it still runs and I love it, lately it's been acting funny and making weird beeps. Seeing as I bring it with me to work each week, Alex thought a little notebook would be make more sense and be easier on my back. So he did his research and we got a Dell Inspiron mini (actually, that was the only stipulation, it had to be a Dell cuz my old one was a Dell and I love it!) I don't really know any specs but it's green, light and tiny. The only thing I have to get use to is the keyboard cuz they shrunk the shift and enter key so I have to stretch my pinky a little more than usual. I'm actually using it right now to blog =D I like how it fits into my purse so I no longer have to lug a huge laptop bag.

I also got a Kindle from my brother/sister-in-law as a belated Christmas present. i originally wasn't too keen on the idea since I love turning pages of a book but I have to say it's so much more convenient. I have 7 or 8 different series of books on it (including Harry Potter) but it's super thin and light. Yet another thing that fits into my purse! I still like actual books because sometimes I like to go back and re-read something quickly and it's harder to do that electronically. If you know someone who loves to read, I'd highly recommend this as a present.

It's sooo bad. I spent pretty much all my free time this past week playing Lego Batman on Wii. It all started when, before the holidays, Alex had an afternoon off and we rented Super Mario Bros. on Wii. I never played video games as a child and so, was never really good. And then never wanted to play because I sucked. It's a crappy cycle. Any way, with Super Mario Bros. there's an option where you get to be in a bubble. So technically, you're still in the game, but you're not dying all the time. I loved it! I was finally "playing" video games and since it's cooperative and not competitive, I was also enjoying it for the very first time.

When I was studying in the States, I won a $30 gift card to Best Buy playing golf (more so, being the worst at golf). The problem was the Best Buy in Canada doesn't accept the gift card. So this holiday season, we went outlet shopping in Seattle and stopped by a Best Buy on the way home. Have you ever tried shopping in a tech store with 30 bucks? It's hard! Everything is either $20 or $80. We ended up spending $40 buying the Lego Batman and rechargers for Wii remotes.

I love Lego Batman. You get to play the game from the different perspectives, the good guys and the bad guys. Also, I don't totally suck at it because it's not just fighting but puzzles too. So yes, my life has wasted away a little bit since I've been home. I definitely see why my parents never bought me this kind of stuff when I was little. I'm finally living my true childhood, none of this silly business of practicing piano and doing Kumon! =P

Yesterday Alex surprised me by asking me out to a movie after dinner. Actually, he started off with making dinner. His days have been ending earlier for this month's rotation so he's been great at already making a meal by the time I get home from work. Yesterday's noodle stir-fry was delish!! He's always good at making chinese food; I guess it's good that I can use recipes to make white food - creates a balance and I don't feel like I need to prove myself =P

Any way, we went and saw "2012" last night. As with any other end of the world movie, there were lots of computer graphics and people dying. It's kinda depressing if you think about it but they didn't focus on that fact of course. Plot line was so-so, they didn't really develop the before aspect of the story (although the little they did already made Alex bored and asking for explosions). Character development was a little better - I liked Woody Harrison, but everyone else was again not great. We were definitely entertained with the computer graphics so, all in all, not a bad way to go as tickets were $4.20/person.

So here's my rankings of world-ending/natural disaster movies:

1. Armageddon - loved how they did up Bruce Willis' character; plus great soundtrack
2. Twister - a machine called Dorothy, life chasing tornados, what's not to like?
3. Volcano - Tommy Lee Jones in the 90's; I like him as the unlikely hero
4. Deep Impact - decent attempt to develop several story lines at once
5. Day After Tomorrow/2012 (Tie) - entertaining but nothing new
6. Dante's Peak - awful.


I watched Mama Mia recently and realized how much I don't like Pierce Brosnan. He really can't sing, and acting is minimal. I was disappointed with that movie overall - the stage version is so much better!

Watched My Sister's Keeper with my mom while she visited. We both cried our eyes out. It a good story, albeit predictable. I'd recommend it to anyone who wants a good cry.

We tend to rent movies from Movie Cube cuz it's conveniently located at at the corner Superstore. It's only $2.25 (tax incl) per movie so we save a lot compared to Blockbusters and going out all the time.

I guess that's all the reviews I have at the moment. Last day of work today - sooo excited. And then free lunch tomorrow! One of the receptionists just told me I smile a lot; what's there to not be smiling about? I love my job! (although some patients I could do without...)